Former BBNaija star Uriel Oputa has a message for fans and followers: mind your own business and stay focused on building your own life.

In a candid Instagram post, Uriel urged people to stop “tapping” into the blessings of others without knowing the full story behind their success. She stressed that people often overlook the sacrifices, struggles, and pain that come with someone’s achievements, choosing instead to admire only the finished product.

“Ladies and Gentlemen, let’s clarify something today,” she began. “There are certain things that are nobody’s business – and I mean nobody.”

Uriel listed personal matters like how someone makes their money, when or who they marry, who they date, or even the age of their partner as examples of things that should not concern the public.

She wrote:

“Let me tap into your blessing — Stop that. Don’t tap into what you don’t understand. You don’t know the sacrifice, the process, the pain, and the journey. Tap into your own blessing, work your own lane, stay focused on your path. Simple!”

She went on to reinforce the point that people owe no one explanations for their personal choices.

“When you’re giving birth — not their business. Who you give birth with — still not their business. Your divorce or why it happened — again, not their business. Because guess what? It’s your life, journey, and story — and you owe no one an explanation.”

 

Uriel’s post is a timely reminder in an age where social media often blurs the lines between public interest and personal privacy. Her call is clear: instead of being overly invested in the lives of others, people should focus on their own dreams, put in the work, and embrace their unique paths.