How to Build a Strong Relationship Between a Man and a Woman by Samuel Ogunremi

A good relationship between a man and a woman doesn't just happen by chance. It takes love, respect, and effort from both sides. Let’s look at some simple ways to make a relationship work, the common problems, and the sacrifices it may take.

1. Talk Honestly With Each Other

Good communication is the key. Always talk about your feelings, problems, and plans. Hiding things or lying will only bring problems.

Example:
If Ayo is sad about losing his job, he should tell Bisi, not pretend everything is fine. She may be able to support him emotionally or even help with ideas.

2. Respect Each Other’s Differences

Men and women often think and act differently. That’s okay. The important thing is to accept and respect those differences.

Example:
Chika likes going out, but Daniel prefers staying indoors. Instead of fighting, they agree to take turns—one weekend out, the next weekend in.

3. Spend Time Together

Quality time builds love. Even if both are busy, make time to be with each other — even if it’s just sitting and talking.

Example:
Even with her tight nursing job, Fatima still makes time every evening to eat dinner with her boyfriend, Musa. That little time helps them stay close.

4. Support Each Other’s Goals

A good partner will cheer you on. Don’t feel jealous of your partner’s success — help them grow.

Example:
When Joy went back to school, her husband, Peter, took on more housework so she could focus on her studies.

5. Forgive and Move On

There will be mistakes. Learn to say “I’m sorry” and forgive quickly. Holding grudges will only destroy love.

Example:
After a big fight, Emeka apologized to Amaka. She forgave him, and they both promised to listen better next time.

Common Challenges:

Misunderstanding each other

Jealousy or lack of trust

Money problems

Outside influence (friends/family opinions)

Sacrifices It May Take:

Giving up some personal time or comfort

Learning patience

Helping financially or emotionally during hard times

Staying loyal even when tempted

Conclusion:
A strong relationship takes effort, time, and heart. It's not always easy, but with love, respect, and sacrifice, both man and woman can build something beautiful together.

Remember: The best relationships are not perfect — they are made by two people who refuse to give up on each other.